Within the medical career, the affected person has the least say. Whenever you search steering, you reply goal questions in knowledgeable and structured format guided by a well being skilled. Bahian heart specialist Ana Marice Ladeia has turned this idea “Do amor e do amar – Histórias de actual girls such as you”.
Within the e book, the writer presents the results of a deep listening and understanding train. Over time, Ana Marice has realized that the most effective listening is completed with out judgment, as a result of there should not solely ailments; one thing that exists with sick folks in all their difficulties as an individual.
“Figuring out the way to take heed to somebody who’s sick requires coaching and follow to turn out to be rational. Due to this fact, in listening to the writer/person-character, I had to concentrate on the speaker’s emotions in accepting them, not judging and guiding the data by way of the wonderful construction of my textual content”, he says.
The work combines twelve brief tales written on the actual testimony of girls or descendants, corresponding to youngsters and grandchildren. “There is no such thing as a worth judgment about every story, there’s a obligatory listening that speaks merely, however inside the actual context, of the relationships lived by the ladies who’re the characters of the tales and their lives”, feedback Ana.
However why discuss love and affection from the testimony of actual girls? “I believed it might be compassionate and empathetic to listen to one girl’s expertise and switch it into literature. So I shared my thought with the ladies near me and I felt that almost all of them needed to share their life tales,” she explains.
The writing offers with themes that may be widespread to many ladies and that each girl can determine with one other girl. This e book talks about passions, betrayal and betrayal, home violence, stolen childhood, selecting to be a single mom, abortion, however in a delicate and delicate approach. It is not a pocket book, it is a e book of sisterhood and dialog with girls’s nature.
With the precise poetic license, the idea of writing, he creates characters that transfer and produce straightforward identification with the reader – girl or man – when he approaches modern themes and on the similar time, corresponding to “love and love”. “The title of the Queen”, “Hurricane pressure”, “Tearing the veil”, “She is from Rio de Janeiro and she or he isn’t afraid of whelks” gave tales that signify the facility of girls and unity, with out planning to be a logo of the pamphleteer.
Ana explains that the strategies used to gather the studies weren’t biased. Others come routinely by way of recorded audio, textual content, a dialog in a restaurant or bakery. Others, requested if somebody want to take part in a e book about their story, or the story of their mom or grandmother.
“Every brief story comes with a narrative that speaks to the reader greater than I wrote. The dialog and expertise of being a girl and figuring out with different girls. For males, it’s a good alternative to take a look at the character of girls in a sympathetic approach, in search of their references that present femininity in these actual characters in order that they are often the mom, the aunt, the spouse of every of them.”
With delicate and touching writing, Ana Marice included 4 poems: three of her personal and one by heart specialist and poet Maria da Conceição Andrade. She is one in all 70 actual girls, of various ages, professions and ethnicities, who lend their distinctive truths and wonder to point out the duvet of the e book and signify this “place” the place creativeness and actuality meet.
“Could this reward that I gave myself on the age of 60 be a present to all girls, as a result of we all know that even within the twenty first century it’s nonetheless very troublesome to be a girl and to have the ability to present all of your fact”, she declares. . The writer believes that the looks of a girl to a different girl ought to at all times deliver compatibility, help and respect for the alternatives of every of us. “No girl exists with out one other girl. In spite of everything, the primary emotional reference that women and men obtain at all times comes from the lady”, concludes Ana.
* Intern beneath editor Ellen Cristie
Title: Romance and Romance – Tales of
actual girls such as you
Creator: Ana Marice Ladeia
Worth: BRL 44.90
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